I am writing this in hopes that I can share what I have learned since the death of my son, Bobby. Bobby was 20-years-old, an honor student, working full-time while attending college. He died suddenly in a car crash.

I have asked over and over again, "Why? It's my fault! I should have done more to protect him! If I hadn't done this or if I had done that!!!! Why him???"

Know that this will rack your mind until you realize one thing: they chose to leave. 

My son chose to be there. On some level, on some dimension, he made a choice. Once I accepted that and honored his choice, it got easier.

Know that it never fully goes away. However, by using the following methods, it can help to make it easier.

• Don't just mourn their passing. Celebrate their life, focus on the time you shared, the things you did together as well as mourning their death.
  
• Know that they are Home. They are God and are now in a dimension of peace and unconditional love.
  
• Know that they existed before they were born and that they exist after they leave this dimension.
  

If you choose to communicate with them, they are ready to communicate with you. They are here to assist you, if you so choose. They are not gone, they are with you forever.

I hope this helps, If I can assist you further, please feel free to contact me and know that I will do my best to help ease your pain.

Blessings,

Robert